Can they.. Or Can they not ?

And that is when I too started pondering..
I have always been giving this advice to all my dear friends.
Love is a great feeling for you.
Gives a new meaning to your life.
Makes you feel that you are important and you are cared for.
Gives you happiness and takes you upon cloud number nine.
But then note the abve 4 lines.
It brings all the joy to 'you' - the two of you.
Think about what your parents will go through.
And your relatives..
In our tradition, unlike the western equivalent, falling in love
brings trouble and pain to all but you.
We tend not to care for (if not forget) the care that our loved ones
(that included parents, friends and every single person u r related to,
directly or indirectly) have for us.

Now if it your love is approved by your parents, No Worries !
Go out and feel like God. There ought to be no stopping.
But in majority of the cases, it wont be so..

Have friends, Have girl friends, enjoy life. Settle down comfortably.

Now that brings another thought.
"Girl Friend"
Say this, and every one around you starts to frown.
"You have a girl friend? Who is it ? How long have you been in touch ?
Why didnt you tell me ? What is your relationship with her ?"

God save you, so that the questions stop there..

Here is my view about the word Girl Friend.
A girl friend, is a girl, who happens to be your friend.
Doesnt (and shouldnt) really mean that you love her, and she loves you.

Yes, I have heard my friends saying 'a girl and a boy cannot just be friends'
I've heard the same dialogue in quite a few movies also.
And then, the very same guys also say "Anything is possible"

hahahaaa... Strange. And weird.

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What I learnt today : Cat house is another term for a house of prostitution
Note : Thats no way related to the story printed above, okay ? :)